Sunday, June 7, 2009
For some people, speaking in public can be a frightening specter. Fobia become a kind of solitary. However, for a few other people, speak in public is a source of livelihood. What secrets can be successful with the smooth talk in public?
"To speak in public necessary preparation, but also careful, there are people who may be afraid to talk because it is too much preparation. I can prepare akan when talking in public, but that should be particularly comfortable with yourself first. Hesitate to show is the number 1 enemy, " tips from Alexander's Sriwijono, psychologists as well as one of the authors books inc Points Talk-talkshows in the event that was held in Kinokuniya, Plaza Senayan. Sometimes, because we feel about people thinking that we will get to speak, or the audience, the older and more rather than we know. Try to think more positive.
Becky Tumewu and Erwin Parengkuan said that the talk is of the natural man. So, people should not need to fear to speak. In response to the statement that, to speak in public is a god-given talent, Erwin Parengkuan said that the speech is not a talent, but that is a material that distinguish will be presented. To be successful, someone must be able and willing to practice communicating with and observing the more sensitive, learn how often people catch one of your content, and how you disclose it and again, also note the response and body language that people talk to. Talking is like dancing tango, a response is required reciprocity.
Sriwijono Alexander added, "Communication is used anywhere. According to me, speak in public is not the talent, but the problem is how to convey things properly. Of the age now that many people replace the word 'help' with 'I', for example. That is not polite. Nah, need to learn to say words correctly, and learn from the responses of others. "
In his book, the third author, Alexander Sriwijono, Becky Tumewu, and Erwin Parengkuan 3 to emphasize the important points and when should someone want to have success in public speaking. Three points are; Mental strength, the accuracy of the words, body language and totality. "When we are afraid to speak in public, the third pillar is destroyed so sure. When someone can overcome the fear, the situation will be more smoothly. They needed to be able to harmonize and balance atmosphere, "said Becky Tumewu.
When asked in regard to public speaking prospective leaders this country, Alexander Sriwijono said, "According to me, public speaking is the timeless memory. I already have 2 children. I would like, anything that I submit in the public record in the media for 15-20 years. I do not want to, when I read what I say in that time, they are ashamed. I have to live up to what I say. So, I think, when the leader who is worthy of the word can be responsible in the future. "